Monday, April 1, 2024

Milestone

I've reached a milestone recently: no posts on Facebook since February 18th. Of course that was helped out by people not interacting with me. But I'm beginning to accept my station in life. The next challenge will be going on a year, and then ceasing altogether before maybe disappearing from the web entirely.

Sunday, March 3, 2024

In Memoriam: Corey Tyler DePooter

From aColumbineSite:

Born March 3, 1982

17 years old

Corey DePooter was a former wrestler who loved to hike, golf, hunt, and fish. He loved wrestling, golf and in-line skating, but fishing was his passion. He had recently taken a maintenance job at a golf club to save up to buy a fishing boat with a friend. Someone Corey used to fish with said: "It was the times we didn't do well that his personality really shined." Another friend said of him: "When you're going fishing or camping, I know he's going to be there, watching and making sure you're doing everything right.

A junior at Columbine at the time of the shootings, Corey is described as an all-American kid who put schoolwork above everything else: He had his wisdom teeth removed that year and was upset that the procedure had forced him to miss school. His sister Jena was a freshman at the high school when he died. He taught her how to fly-fish. Jena said she likes to imagine her brother doing something he loves.

Corey was hiding under a table near the windows with his best friend Stephen "Austin" Eubanks, Jennifer Doyle, and Peter Ball when the shooters entered the library. While his friend Austin watched, Dylan Klebold aimed his semi-automatic at Corey and pulled the trigger, killing him almost instantly and injuring Jenny and Austin.

Austin Eubanks later said about Corey: "People said he was the kind of guy people like to be around. I know I sure did. Corey was always able to pick our spirits up in a gloomy situation."

Though Austin survived, sadly he died from an accidental heroin overdose on May 18, 2019, just weeks after Columbine's 20th anniversary. He struggled with opioid for years after the shooting, having gotten hooked on painkillers while recovering from his injuries. Corey was never far from his thoughts in life; he spoke about him often when he was at public speaking events.

"Corey would have told us to move on," his mother Patricia told the Denver Post. "He would not like us moping around." But: "There are days you just cry and cry and cry."

Corey died in the library from multiple gunshot wounds to the neck, chest and left arm. His funeral was held at Trinity Christian Center. Soon after his death his grandmother, Fern Hamilton, contacted the Marine Corps about holding some sort of ceremony for Corey because he'd always wanted to become a Marine. On May 3, 2000, Corey was granted that dream during a ceremony at his gravesite in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens in Littleton, Colorado, where he was made an honorary Marine.



Austin Eubanks and Corey DePooter




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Saturday, March 2, 2024

In Memoriam: Daniel Lee Rohrbough

From aColumbineSite:

Born March 2, 1984

15 years old

Daniel Rohrbough enjoyed electronics and computer games. He was looking forward to getting his driver's permit soon. Remembered as a fun guy. He helped in his father's stereo business, Excalibur Sound Systems, every day after school and during the summer he worked on his grandfather's farm in Kansas harvesting wheat, as he had done since he was three. He used the money he earned to buy Christmas presents for his family.

His parents divorced, but they made a pact to make raising Danny their number one priority. His mother married Rich Petrone, whose daughter Nicole became Dan's stepsister. His father married Lisa. Dan spent time with both families. On Tuesday, April 20, Danny's father Brian knew something was wrong when his son failed to show up at the shop after school like normal.

Dan was heading out of the cafeteria that morning with friends Lance Kirklin and Sean Graves when the shooters opened fire down the grassy knoll outside the school's west entrance. There was no warning for Danny and no chance: He was felled by shots to the abdomen and left leg. Lance tried to catch him but was shot as well. Moments later Dylan Klebold shot him again at point-blank range in the chest. He bled to death on the sidewalk outside the school where he lay for nearly 2 days before paramedics were allowed to move him.

The Rohrboughs were kept in the dark about what had happened to their son; law enforcement told them they didn't know for certain that the body on the sidewalk was Dan Rohrbough and wouldn't let the family in to check for themselves. It wasn't till the morning after the shootings that the Rohrboughs found out for certain what they already knew in their hearts: Danny was indeed the dead boy outside and they learned this news because it was splashed all over the morning news, and not because the family was told directly by officials.

There was even more controversy over Daniel's death when Arapahoe County Deputy James Taylor, who had been a friend of the Rohrbough family, told Danny's parents that the boy may have been killed by 'friendly fire' from a Denver SWAT team member. Lawsuits and independent investigation has confirmed that Dan died from the shot fired by Eric Harris but it was never made clear whether or not Danny was hit in the crossfire by a bullet from law enforcement. The family later sued Taylor, who was suspended from the force. Additionally, there was initial confusion over which gunman was the one to have killed Dan Rohrbough. The Columbine Report states that it was Dylan Klebold who fired the fatal shot but an independent investigation by the El Paso County Sheriff's Dept. determined it was Eric Harris' weapon that was responsible.

He was known in the media reports later as "the boy who held the door open" for friends, allowing them to escape from the school during the assault. It's a heroic notion but, like many stories of martyrdom during the crisis, this isn't supported by the evidence or witness statements entered into the official reports. Chances are his story was confused with that of Sean Graves, who was stuck in the doorway of the cafeteria, paralyzed. Regardless, the people who knew him all agree on one thing: Danny was a wonderful young man who is sorely missed.

Shortly after learning of his death, Dan's mother Sue Petrone started a load of laundry in order to "do something normal" and came across Daniel's shirt and socks. "The little things just bring back the horror of the fact that he's not with us any more," she said. She didn't often see Dan in the mornings before his death but that last morning they managed to come together for a brief chat that ended with a hug, a kiss, and her telling him she loved him. It was the last time she saw him alive.

Dan Rohrbough's funeral was held at Grace Presbyterian Church and he was buried in Littleton Cemetery in Littleton, Colorado.

Brian and Lisa Rohbough adopted two kids from Ukraine, Rachel (2) and Isaac (1), on September 9, 2003.